A New Facet of the Pro-Life Movement: The Fatherhood Movement

2013-11-29 Delivery Man

This post was my first introduction to The Fatherhood Movement. In it, Alana Newman describes handing out fliers outside of screenings of The Deliveryman (Vince Foster comedy about a donor data of over 500 kids) because “We can’t all be scared, stay at home and never do the dirty work of questioning this industry.”

I clicked on over to her section on The Fatherhood Movement to learn more, and the first two paragraphs read:

I believe in Fatherhood. I believe poverty will be eliminated when the raw energy and genius of every adult man is channeled to serve and care for his children and community. I believe we need to lift up male strengths and good masculine character as assets in our quest for joy, health and wealth. I believe every child needs his or her father, but first we have to teach boys how to become men that are prepared for such a responsibility and can deliver on his role.

The absence of my own biological father in my life was crushing. The associated behavioral problems I exhibited could easily have been lethal. And I hurt many people on my path to where I am now.

There aren’t a lot of donor-conceived children who are old enough to really speak out about their experiences and impressions. And yet it seems that their voices should be the voices that matter the most, right? I don’t yet know how widespread the feeling of being deprived a father is, but it’s an issue I’ll be paying attention to. If I recall, it dovetails with the Catholic belief that children have a right to parents.

http://alananewman.com/the-delivery-man/

Funny Maps, American Ignorance, and Common Humanity

A series of humorous posts of clueless individuals trying to fill in maps has been making the rounds recently. The first one I saw was an Australian trying to fill in a map of US states.

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A for effort?

Next up, BuzzFeed asked a bunch of Brits to try the same task in honor of the Thanksgiving holiday. Their results weren’t any better.

Hey, at least the Aussie tried to name every state!
Hey, at least the Aussie tried to name every state!
Poor Nebraska has been demoted to "Who Cares?"
Poor Nebraska has been demoted to “Who Cares?”

Then there’s the BoredPanda version which takes the other approach by asking a bunch of Americans to try and label European countries with predictable results. 

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GQ: Quit Watching Porn

Scene from the new film "Don Jon," which addresses porn and porn addiction.
Scene from the new film “Don Jon,” which addresses porn and porn addiction.

Given the pervasiveness of porn in our culture, I figured I’d be one of a lone voice of marginalized weirdos for stating that it’s bad and people should knock it off. And yet, on the heels of Joseph Gordon-Levitt’s “Don Jon”, GQ has an article called 10 Reasons Why You Should Quit Watching Porn. There aren’t a lot of new scientific details in the article, and all the reasons come down to mostly “it’s bad for your sex life.” Perhaps not the noblest of reasons, but perfectly valid and quite pragmatic. It’s nice to see this issue dragged into the spotlight of mainstream attention.

The Family that Didn’t Tip Gay Waiter? Hoax.

2013-11-26 Receipts

Remember that story about the family that left a nasty note about being gay instead of a tip? Yeah, apparently it didn’t happen. It’s too early to tell what the real story is conclusively, but I won’t be surprised either way. Bigotry happens. So do exploitative hoaxes.

After-Birth Abortion

You see a defenseless human being deserving our love and legal protection. Bio-ethicists see a fallacious appeal to emotion.
You see a defenseless human being deserving our love and legal protection. Bio-ethicists see a fallacious appeal to emotion.

A couple of bio-ethicists have recently made the case for after-birth abortion. Again. This isn’t news. The pro-choice logic has obviously pointed that way for years, and Planned Parenthood spokespersons and great pro-choice thinkers have been more than happy to advocate infanticide for decades. The only thing that’s new this time around is that a major outlet like Slate seems willing to talk about it.

(Side note: why is it that every time I hear about bio-ethicists it’s because they’re advocating new and exciting rationalizations for homicide? Is that just the career choice of well-adjusted homicidal maniacs these days? Is there an aptitude test somewhere that says: “Well, you can either become a mass-murderer or–to avoid vigorous exercise and possible jail time–you can just write long-winded treatises in favor of pushing the legal envelope on killing humans beings.”)

In any case, William Saletan is doing just that: taking the issue seriously. Saletan is, from what I can tell, a dissident pro-choice voice. He supports legalized abortion, but is highly critical of the arguments deployed by the largest pro-choice institutions. And, as he illustrates, this new modest proposal for infanticide (sadly it is not satire) causes problems for the pro-choice side by directly calling into question many of their key assumptions, such as:

  1. The moral significance of fetal development is arbitrary.
  2. Prior to personhood, human life has no moral claims on us.
  3. Any burden on the woman outweighs the value of the child.
  4. The value of life depends on choice.
  5. Discovery of a serious defect is grounds for termination.

The list reads like a pro-life critique of the current pro-choice rationales, and I think it’s going to be another example (partial-birth abortion was the first, no matter what Saletan thinks of the term) where it’s pro-choice extremism that really does more to damage the movement than pro-life activism ever could. It’s taken a long, long, long time but–I hope–eventually the American people will come to see abortion for what it really is. (Which, not to leave anyone on a cliffhanger, is simply the further exploitation of women as sexual objects.)

Scott Walker 2016?

2013-11-26 Scott Walker

I know it’s silly, but my favorite candidate for 2016 is still Mitt Romney. Third time’s the charm, eh? But, since that’s not likely, I’m kind of desperate to find anyone who isn’t either Cruz or McCain. I feel like they represent the polar disparities of the GOP.

So the natural person to look to is Chris Christie, but some of what I’ve learned has made me wary of his campaign, including the difficulty the Romney campaign had in vetting him in 2012. Marc Thiessen at the WaPo makes the case that Scott Walker, current governor of Wisconsin and the only governor in US history to survive a recall,  should be on the radar:

Walker survived the 2012 recall by mobilizing his conservative base with his courageous, unflinching stand — and appealing to persuadable, reform-minded, results-oriented independents, who provided the critical margin of victory. That is precisely what Republicans need to do nationally if they want to win back the presidency in 2016.

A staunch, full-spectrum conservative who is reasonable and appeals to moderates? Yes, please. I thought this quote was funny as well:

Walker delivers everything Christie does it terms of appealing to the center — but without the ideological compromise. And he delivers everything Ted Cruz does in terms of taking the fight to the left — but without the losing.

Without the losing, in particular, would be nice.

Monday Morning Mormonism: Religious and Secular Authority

2013-11-25 peter_walking_on_water

This morning’s regularly scheduled Times And Seasons post is up. In this post, I talk about the benefits of an atheological religion, and the danger of replacing the missing religious authority with a secular one: academia. (I also make some comments about the importance of failure, hence the image of Peter sinking into the stormy waves.)

Monday Mormon Mormonism: Business Theology

2013-11-18 The Marriage of Heaven and HellInspired by the work of DR’s own Walker Wright and his co-author Allen Hansen, my post for Times And Seasons this morning delves into the fruitful nexus of business and theology, especially in light of Peter Drucker’s body of work. Allen suggested the post title, and I liked it. Why stop at chasing the bankers out of the temple when you can carry the offensive forward and bring the temple into the bank?

The 11 Nations That Comprise the United States

2013-11-15 The American Nations

Although the emphasis of this article is explaining the gun control debate in the United States, it offers a really compelling vision into the nature of our American society in general. As the map indicates, there are 11 different “nations” that make up the current US, and–since these nations don’t fall neatly into state lines–state level red vs. blue analysis tends to not pick them up. Just to give some idea of what this is all about, here are the descriptions for two of the nations. As a classic “blue” nation, we’ll start with “Yankeedom”.

YANKEEDOM. Founded on the shores of Massachusetts Bay by radical Calvinists as a new Zion, Yankeedom has, since the outset, put great emphasis on perfecting earthly civilization through social engineering, denial of self for the common good, and assimilation of outsiders. It has prized education, intellectual achievement, communal empowerment, and broad citizen participation in politics and government, the latter seen as the public’s shield against the machinations of grasping aristocrats and other would-be tyrants. Since the early Puritans, it has been more comfortable with government regulation and public-sector social projects than many of the other nations, who regard the Yankee utopian streak with trepidation.

Then, taking up a portion of my home state of Virginia (but not where I live), we’ve got “Greater Appalachia”:

GREATER APPALACHIA. Founded in the early eighteenth century by wave upon wave of settlers from the war-ravaged borderlands of Northern Ireland, northern England, and the Scottish lowlands, Appalachia has been lampooned by writers and screenwriters as the home of hillbillies and rednecks. It transplanted a culture formed in a state of near constant danger and upheaval, characterized by a warrior ethic and a commitment to personal sovereignty and individual liberty. Intensely suspicious of lowland aristocrats and Yankee social engineers alike, Greater Appalachia has shifted alliances depending on who appeared to be the greatest threat to their freedom. It was with the Union in the Civil War. Since Reconstruction, and especially since the upheavals of the 1960s, it has joined with Deep South to counter federal overrides of local preference.

A lot of this theory overlaps work from other historians and sociologists, but I thought the finer breakdown into 11 different groups was an interesting addition.

Awesome 3D Human Interaction Device from MIT

Sometimes the rapid pace of technological advancement is a bug rather than a feature. Everyone is so busy designing the next iteration of a familiar gadget (faster consoles, faster phones, faster tablets) that we’re not very good at exploiting the technology we already have. This awesome gadget is built with off-the-shelf components that have been around for years (like an Xbox Kinect sensor and a projector). It just took someone taking the time to rearrange this older hardware in an innovative new system.